Cherish the life we have
Dr. Asma Ali (Ecologist)
A couple of days back my little daughter asked me “ Mom, what is love?”. Her penetrating gaze prowled over my face. I nodded and lapsed into silence. I was really so puzzled, then I try to figure it out. Because love is a most sensible topic of our society (though everyone of us feels love for someone, but deny to accept) specially in India love stimulate honour killing.
I gave answer to myself “love is a most beautiful feeling of the world. Your whole world revolves around a person to whom you love. Love moves in your body through blood, substantially affect your nervous system and hormonal system too. Love emites positive rays that make a hollow to transfers positive energy all around you.”
Love brings out the best of a person and makes him most precious and surpassing. Sometimes when you feel worthless and get plunge in darkness then….. HARBINGER OF GOOD THINGS ,shows you the beam of light and you stand again TO knife the darkness, you make your feet strong on the ground, speed up your work with renewed vigour and confidence. When you love someone ( could be your parents, kids, spouse) you turn very caring and responsible person. Love exist within you throughout your life time and proliferated with time.
I always have a different perception about love, that I am trying to find out.
If you examine the nature of human love you will find that it is entirely based on a Desire for something which gives you pleasure (Christ’s articles 5- walking in love). That's why human love evaporates with time. But spiritual love is somewhat different, where you love a person without any expectations or out comes and not for your pleasure only. Your love Trigger you care deeply about your spouse's or loved one's welfare in various stages of life.
Consider the dark side of love.
On 14 September 2018 Perumalla (24 year) a dalit (formally untouchable) boy was murdered in front of his wife Amrutha (21 years, who belong to wealthy and upper caste family) in an alleged honour killing. Because boy did not belong to the same caste.
June 2019 (Akshaya Nath, Chennai) an inter-caste couple was attacked by the boy’s relatives in Coimbatore, India. 22 year old boy died on the spot and his wife succumbed to injuries after 3 days. You will literally find the same stories on each and every land mass across the globe. This will be answered someday.
Distance, time, age and religion can never affect the person's feelings but in our society love is forbidden. As we know HUMAN LOVE GOVERNED BY EGO.
On the basis of race, culture, etc. we have divided our entourage into many groups, it's a secret truth that everyone knows. Our ego doesn't allow us to bridge the gap. Love always has a long standing argument with the Framer of society. Men of all religions and political hue submerged their feud.
At some point in the future the death of ego will accelerate our unconditional love from higher realm....... Ameen.
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